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I LOVE it when my clients send me a note saying that they are not even the same person anymore.
And THIS is what the goal is! This is what I live for and why I do what I do.
Transformation.
We let go of the Old, and we embrace and step into practicing becoming the NEW.
(Note the perfect timing with the Easter story.)
Even if you don't practice that religion, the truth of being able to let go of who we used to be and to become a new person still remains a reality for all of us.
And as we decide to NOT be who we used to be ... that was tripping us up ... we embrace doing whatever has to be done to become a better, 2.0 version.
Where we are no longer constantly triggered, and unseated emotionally, by what other people say or do.
(Where we are not easily unseated by what horses are doing!) Or trainers! Bosses or spouses!
Where we are not negative, judgmental, and needing to run away from people, jobs, events, and yes ... even horses.
Where we have become so expert at shifting our initial perspectives/beliefs and stuck emotional gears and spinning new stories that serve us better ...
That we stay focused on what is REALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT;
Which is ... staying the course and achieving our mission of growth to reach peak performance and become our personal best ... no matter what!
Staying focused on the MISSION of becoming unflappable, unstoppable, and best rider and human that we can be!
NOW ... we understand what drives us ... in a negative or a positive way.
NOW ... we see WANT to see things in a different perspective that serves us better!
NOW ... we understand where we sabotage ourselves and how to prevent that from happening.
NOW ... we are empowered and in control of our emotions, our lives, our horses, and our results!
NOW .. we can "embrace the suck" and make ourselves do things we don't want to do.
NOW ... we can choose to EMBRACE people, places, and things that we used to demonize!
"But wait ... I simply don't believe all that can happen. Or if it can for others, but it won't for me!"
Those are called LIMITING BELIEFS!
They are "stories" that we are telling ourselves.
Learn the tools and techniques to turn "I can't", "I don't want to", and "I don't need to" into generating the successful results you dream of with your horse and your life.
Learn how to program your brain to discipline your thoughts and behaviors.
It is just about uncovering what neuropathways (patterns of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors) are no longer working for you ...
And how to lay down new ones.
And allowing someone to guide you, push you, and to hold you accountable to being coachable.
And finally, to NEVER allow yourself the excuses and back doors out of not staying the course and to instead COMMIT to practicing the new you over and over and over.
Acting as if until you become.
No matter the obstacles on your bridle path.
You will learn how to successfully jump over ALL of them!
And that starts with not focusing on the obstacles and your negative or worried thoughts about them ...
But focusing instead on the track you want to be on and the final mission you want to accomplish.
(It's Tony's race car driver story/technique!)
It's also the whole premise behind doing firewalking at Tony's event; the key is to not look at, focus on (demonize). and allow yourself to get psyched out by the hot coals.
In fact, you learn how not to even think about them at all! Because you are SO FOCUSED on the outcome! Which is ...
Becoming an fearless and empowered firewalker. (Or a fearless and empowered Equestrian Rockstar!)
Who is learning how to master their old self and negative habits of thoughts and feelings.
NOTHING feels more powerful and satisfying than SELF-MASTERY from old habits, running away, or staying stuck.
Get good at conditioning your brain to do that, quickly shifting mental gears and pace ... nailing those audacious turns ... blowing away your past habits.
And you will never again stop or run out of any jumps/obstacles/adversities in your life!
You will never again allow other people, places, and things (or horses) to unseat you off your bridle path of success in whatever you made a commitment to accomplish.
We don't need to 100 percent trust the horse, the trainer, or the course to learn and grow and achieve.
In fact, my own personal rule is to not trust anyone. At all! (If you read my book, you know why I adopted that criteria!)
But I don't allow that lack of trust to stop me from interreacting with them because I don't CHOOSE TO HAVE "trusting others or things" as a belief for a criteria I need to be successful.
What I have, because of my own transformation, and what we all MUST BE ABLE TO DO, is to trust ourselves to be able to have the emotional strength, resiliency, and mental programming skills to generate the horse and results we want in life ... regardless of anything else!
Nancy Dye
Breakthrough, Peak Performance Mental Skills Coach
Emotional Strength & Resiliency Trainer
Strategic Interventionist
1-561-866-0402
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